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A Courtesan – Two Flutes – Beautiful Music

Yeah, you know where I’m going with this one…..One of the recurring images in the work of master 19th century artist Sir Lawrence Alma-Tadema, is a woman with a cloth strapped across her mouth, two slits in the cloth and two reed instruments inserted into the slits. She then plays both flutes at once, with one hand on each flute.

Here is an example from one of Alma-Tadema’s most famous paintings, A Dedication to Bacchus – observe the trio of women to the right side of the central figure, and the woman in the middle of that trio, playing the reed instrument.

A Dedication to Bacchus by Sir Lawrence Alma-Tadema

(1889, image in the public domain, painting in a private collection)

Here a detail blowup of that area of the painting showing the player,

detail blowupshowing woman playing an aulos from A Dedication to Bacchus

More on Sir Lawrence at the end of the post…and more there on the twin reed flutes instrument, or aulos.

I, of course, being ever carnally alert, immediately concluded that the symbology of the woman playing the two flutes was thinly disguised nineteenth century porn. That premise is somewhat born out by Greek history from the classical period which indicates that courtesans were the most frequent players of the instrument, and Plato associated it with the ecstatic cults of Dionysus and the Korybantes, banning it from his Republic .

Therefore I’m sure Sir Lawrence would have given us images such as this below if he were here today and unconstrained by the mores of 19th century England:

woman holding a cock in each hand with clothed men on each side

Preparing to play both flutes

and, as all players of reed instruments know, you have to wet the reed before playing,

two cocks pushing into a shaved pussy

Just a little more warm up, boys…

and when the musician is warmed up and  ready,

woman sucking two big cocks into her mouth at the same time

Making beautiful music

or perhaps a fellow musician helps you with the warm-up,

brunette sucking on two cocks at once blowjob resting her head on a shaved pussy


why is its  a veritable symphony!!!

a facial with two cumshots on brunette with open mouth

Crescendo fortissimo!

woman jerking off two cocks into her mouthwoman with pearl necklace enjoying double cumshot facialwoman with uplifted face and two cocks spurting cumshots on her mouth and lips

(Check the Galleries tab/page at the top menu for a collection of some more cumshot crescendos.)

and of course there’s always someone REALLY ambitious who wants to push the flute playing envelope,

woman laying down with three cocks pushing into her mouth

I have great lungs too

but that will take lots of practice.

Now more on Sir Lawrence Alma-Tadema: he is one of the most highly renowned romantic artists of late 19th century Britain. He was born in the Netherlands as Laurens Tadema, to the family of the town notary. Later, as he tried to make his niche in the art world, he changed the spelling of his first name to the more English “Lawrence,” and included his middle name “Alma” as part of his surname: he was a practical fellow and did that so he would be listed among the “A’s” in exhibition catalogues. Kinda like all the businesses nowadays in the yellow pages such as “AAPlumbing”.

For more of his biography and more images of his wonderful paintings, go HERE and HERE.

And that instrument, the aulos: uimage of Greek pottery showing a man playing an aulossually a double, consisted of two double-reed (like an oboe) pipes, not joined but generally played with a mouth-band to hold both pipes steadily between the player’s lips.

Modern reconstructions indicate that they produced a low, clarinet-like sound, that was described as “penetrating, insisting and exciting” — perhaps more akin to that of the bagpipes, with a chanter and (modulated) drone.

Penetrating and exciting….no wonder Plato was dubious.

This image showing an aulos is in the public domain of a piece at the Louvre, entitled Banquet Euaion from the Greek classical period.

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5 Best Sensuous Couples Video Clips

These are 5 of the best sensuous video clips I’ve found lately featuring couples:

1) The Weeknd : “What You Need” (NSFW Hasselhoff edit)
by Gunnar Andersson,


2) ‘Til The End Of Time ft. V by Timothy Bloom, music video,


3) Quatre by rebobine for Wallpaper Magazine,


The last two are product advert/commercial clips.

4)  Devendra Banhart at the Rainbow House – Director’s Cut, by Lisa Eisner for Oliver Peoples,


5) Chanel ft Nicole Kidman, directed by Baz Luhrmann, and with Brazilian actor Rodrigo Santoro,


If you think that clip is a bit reminiscent of Moulin Rouge, why yes, Luhrmann directed Moulin Rouge.

and here’s one last bonus clip – more hardcore for a happy ending…

VIV THOMAS THE ART OF SEX (trailer for the Art of Sex video by Viv Thomas who makes sensual and erotic full-length films, available on viv-thomas.com).(9:59)

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Bigger Better Faster More

When I wrote that phrase above in the previous post about the relaunch of this blog, I was reminded of where I had recently seen the phrase – the title of a 1990’s album with the hit:

Whats Up

(What’s Up / What’s Goin’ On – Remix)


album art for Bigger Better Faster More By 4 Non Blondes from their album Bigger Better Faster More…which is a fine concept to live by in general. That power lead vocal is Linda Perry in action.

This was their only hit, in 1993, and the group disbanded in late 1994 during the recording of their second album, which was never completed.

Lead vocalist Linda Perry went solo in 1995. Perry has since released solo work, and produced and written songs on hit albums by Christina Aguilera (“I’m OK” and “Beautiful”), Alicia Keys, Pink (“Get the Party Started“), Gwen Stefani, Courtney Love and Kelly Clarkson.

Here is an interview with Perry.

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What Is A Man? Snuffed By Google – Relaunched as Ram The Sunlover

My adult blog What Is A Man? was snuffed out by Google several weeks ago. Two years of posts, over 250, vaporized with no warning or discussion. And even worse than that the over 700 images stored on Picasa?? Gone, baby, gone. No response, no appeal, the Borg is inscrutable and implacable.

But hey, the Borg owns Blogger, you use it for free, and you submit to the TOS of the Borg when you sign up. You just never believe it could happen to you. In hindsight, Blogger/Google/Borg clearly has always had an uneasy teetering on the edge tolerance of adult blogs.

Perhaps the handwriting was even more clearly on the wall, when the Borg implemented the Google+ profiles with zero tolerance for adult material in any way connected to the + profile, as reported by Violet Blue, and Camille Crimson’s post: Google+ Doesn’t Like Blowjobs. Even before that, in March 2011, the popular Blogger based blog High on Sex was wiped out by Google – 5 years and 1500 posts…and relaunched on Tumblr.

So after considerable tinkering and research and experimentation, I have relaunched.

manta ray leaping out of the watercredit: Barcroft Media

My new website/blog is Ram The Sunlover, with an adult sex blog and galleries. On a WordPress installation. On an independent web host. That actively welcomes adult blogs and websites. With my own storage of images. Live and learn and relaunch.

Stop by and check it out – subscribe by email or to a feed. Not much there yet but it’ll be bigger, better, faster, more!

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